Have you ever stopped to think how hard coupling is on a spiritual level? What are the odds of two people connecting with one another when there is stiff competition on both sides to win one or both of the people in the relationship?
When you see it for what it is, those of us who find a suitable mate that truly loves us and wants to commit only to us are truly blessed. Don't take your miracle for granted because your spouse is your miracle and your partner for life. Just something to chew on.