When we were just dating, I couldn't keep my eyes off that beautiful woman in the picture. She made me happy. She made me feel daring. She let me be who I was. That's why I married her. Every time I see that picture, I remember how she turned me into putty with her baby voice and soft touch. I celebrate that woman then and the one she is now. I'm a blessed guy.
You have to do the same. Think about who she was and who she is now. You could have married hundreds of other women, but she grabbed your heart. Why? Whatever it was, don't let that die. Don't let yourself see her differently. And, don't allow a foreign woman to blind you to what you truly have, men!