All marriages have those blah moments when everything seems boring and mundane. In fact, that's just life. Married and not, you'll have those moment. The key is to remember it is only a moment you're having. There's no need to argue about the boredom or try to place blame. Just know that it won't always be that way. The better way to spend your energy is thinking of some inexpensive of free things you and your spouse can share together.